The memorial service for conservative figure Charlie Kirk was overshadowed by a political feud after his wife, Erika Kirk, allegedly took the drastic and very public step of banning Candace Owens from attending. The move has ignited a chaotic debate, with fans accusing Erika of acting out of “pure jealousy” and Candace being criticized for making Charlie’s death about herself.

 

The Ban and the Cover Story

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Candace Owens, who had been the most vocal figure since Charlie’s passing, was conspicuously absent from the memorial. Her initial explanation was that she chose not to attend because she feared for her life, claiming the same “powerful people” (including the Feds and billionaires) she was investigating for Charlie’s death were now targeting her.

She further hinted that Erika might not be in “full control” of the event, suggesting donors and powerful figures were pressuring the organizers. However, her own claims were contradicted when Tucker Carlson—whom Candace claimed was also blacklisted—was present and spoke at the event. Subsequently, multiple sources claimed the truth was that Erika herself banned Candace, leading to a public relations scramble.

 

Erika’s Alleged Motivation: The Spotlight

 

The consensus among fans and sources is that Erika was furious at Candace for monopolizing the public attention surrounding the tragedy. Points of contention included:

Making it Personal: Candace had used Charlie’s death as a platform to launch dramatic, wide-ranging rants about a cover-up and an “ordered hit,” effectively making the tragedy about her investigation rather than a focus on Charlie’s legacy or his family.
Stealing the Spotlight: The video notes that Erika, who was elected the new CEO of Turning Point, was still being overshadowed in the news by Candace’s inflammatory rants and claims, suggesting a resentment over the attention dynamic.
Lack of Respect: Candace’s public rants never included any public thoughts, prayers, or respect for Erika, even after heartbreaking pictures of Erika holding up a rosary went viral.

The move to ban Candace was allegedly seen as a way for Erika to ensure the memorial focused on Charlie’s life and legacy, not Candace’s drama.

 

Candace’s Complete 180

Charlie Kirk had 'break-up' with Candace Owens after she went 'too down the  rabbit holes'

After the memorial, Candace performed a “complete 180” in her public discourse. She immediately ceased her investigations and publicly showered Erika with effusive praise, tweeting about Erika’s “absolutely incredible” strength and “stunning example of the Christian faith.”

Fans have quickly dismissed this sudden change in tone, calling it inauthentic “damage control.” Many believe Candace is merely softening her stance to appease Erika and ensure she doesn’t get banned from the subsequent, more intimate funeral service, demonstrating a desperation to get back into the family’s good graces.

The feud has turned a tragedy into an unpredictable public drama, leaving the conservative movement and the internet watching what is shaping up to be a long-term, messy power struggle.